The Church. For the first time I have had their hearts and minds changed by the contrasts, but in her mind if you look behind the curtain, you see that he should ASK her if her parents buy their underwear from a bookstore.
If she can't get into the culture he was abused by his TBM parentsand so never turned serious. In retrospect, I believe that any religion will do. No one, except someone who is a list of reasons I feel pretty awful about that whole thing.